Ep. 34: Why You Need To Stop Listening To Other People's Advice When It Comes To Relationships, Parenting, Or Your Beauty Business
Are you trying to get somewhere in your beauty business, become the best parent you can be, or improve your relationships with the people around you, and you're just OVERWHELMED with the advice out there? Does it sometimes seem like it's TOO MUCH?
I have your back, sister friend. Okay? I'm here to grant you complete and total permission to stop listening to all of that advice.
Yup, just shut it all down. I know that can seem scary. How do you succeed in anything without the advice of others? Trust me, you know what to do deep inside of you. You have what it takes to build meaningful relationships, be a good parent, and grow a bomb beauty business. If all you've been doing is looking for other people's advice and absorbing it and absorbing it and absorbing it and then searching out more advice and absorbing it and absorbing it - well, you've got a lot going on in that head of yours. And it can be overwhelming. But you have instincts that will guide you.
Don't worry if you're a little scared right now. In this episode, I'm going to break down for you why you need to stop listening to other people's advice and how you can succeed in all aspects on your own. Remember boss babe, you have all of the power you need inside of you.
Here are the episode highlights:
‣‣ [05:39] So first, let's talk about how everyone and their mom seems to have an opinion these days and they all think they're the best person to give the best advice to you.
‣‣ [07:21] Now, we can start to break down why you need to stop listening to other people's opinions. First of all, nobody knows you better than you and therefore they can't know what you need better than you.
‣‣ [07:56] Second, you might have a completely different goal for yourself than other people do. Whatever advice other people are giving you, it's what they want you to do, not necessarily what you want to do.
‣‣ [09:46] Third, and I hate to say this, when you're seeking out improvement and trying to grow, people are going to get jealous. When people get jealous, they're going to give you advice that'll only hold you back.
‣‣ [12:39] Okay, so now that you know you need to stop listening to other people's advice, how do you take action yourself? How do you know what the right thing to do is?
I'M READY TO STOP LISTENING TO OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS! (Listen Here)
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Here are the links that were mentioned in the podcast!
Grow Your Gram
Online Course Workshop
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